Is backpacking the entire Appalachian Trail your dream? If you said yes, you are in for a grand adventure. But there is one more serious issue to consider to be truly prepared for the journey. What if you attempt the dream of thru-hiking the A.T., but are unable to complete it? In 1990, I camped with two couples and one individual the night before they made the decision to cease their thru-hike, which was sad. One couple from Texas had spent years preparing for their thru-hike. And the wife had quit a good job in order to attempt her longtime dream. But just before Harper’s Ferry, she damaged her knee. Their dream came to a premature end.
It hurts when a dream does not come true! I know this from experience. I have had some incredible dreams come true. But I have had some lifelong dreams which have never come true, and serious pain results.
Accepting the inherent risk of dreaming, know there can be fulfillment even if a dream is not completed as hoped. First, there still can be so much goodness along the way. Take any given week of my 164 day journey on the A.T., and if that was the only week I would have had, there were some blessings. Second, sometimes dreams which end differently than expected still foster goodness down the road. But it still hurts. I give a personal conviction here: I believe God wants good dreams to come true for you, though often those dreams are a bit more unique than our expectations.
I conclude by saying it is my conviction that whatever the nature of your dreams, what is needed all along is love. There is nothing better than being loved. And loving people is good.
Here in my 30th year since backpacking the entire A.T., the best thing which remains: Loving friends. Every year I still send Christmas letters to six thru-hikers from 1990. And after 30 years, I still get Christmas cards from those same six friends: The Journalist, the Green Mountain Trio, Mr. Beel, and Wild Bill & Calamity Jane. And first and foremost is my true love Friend. Loving friends remain when a dream is past.
Love all along.
Hunter Irvine, A.T. 1990




